I’m sterile, and I hid this from my first girlfriend for a long time because I feared she would leave me.
When I eventually told her, she ended up leaving. I was heartbroken for a year, and all my other relationships fell apart without going anywhere.
Around six months ago, I met someone special and fell deeply in love, but I was still too scared to tell her. Yesterday, I opened up and shared everything with her. She looked at me calmly and said that we could always adopt in the future.
I felt so relieved that I began crying, and in that moment, I knew I wanted to marry her.
That must have been such an intense and emotional experience for you. Carrying that fear for so long, only to be met with unconditional love and acceptance, is incredibly powerful.
It makes sense that you’d feel so overwhelmed with relief—finding someone who accepts you fully, even with your vulnerabilities, is a rare and precious gift.
Though your past was filled with painful moments, they ultimately led you to this special person who truly values you for who you are. Her immediate reaction, filled with understanding and hope for a future together, speaks volumes about the depth of her love and character.
This sounds like the kind of love built to last—one that is rooted in mutual respect, acceptance, and a shared vision for the future. You deserve nothing but happiness, and it seems you’ve found someone who makes you feel truly safe and loved. Wishing you both a future filled with love, joy, and all the dreams you decide to pursue together. 💙